Jessie T. Wolf
Well... I just totally got yelled at by Tim's mom this morning.
Am I really that messed up...? I need to figure out who the hell I am and where I want to be in life...
But right now... I mostly just want to fucking crawl under a rock, and disappear. -__-
Current Mood: depressed
O___o' You didn't appear that messed up to me... if that's worth anything...
Feel hugged, will you?
In before standard shitty furry fan defence force
hurf durf Tim's mum is a bitch murr love your artz.
Yelled at about what?
What was she yelling about??
|Date:||June 30th, 2008 02:40 pm (UTC)|| |
hey, head up. Everyone does something wrong from time to time.
Just learn from what you did wrong.
And yes, thinking about what you really want, is a big step in life.
I wish the best for you.
*hugs* I don't think you're messed up. She's your mother in law, she's contractually required to be hyper-critical. Drop me a line if you want to chat.
*nodnods* I think we're all in the same boat with regards of where the hell are we and where do we go from here...
|Date:||June 30th, 2008 07:19 pm (UTC)|| |
I gotta agree with Iron Raptor. I don't think too many furs have things figured out. Not just talking about the basement dwelling types =P. Sometimes you just gotta pick a direction and surge ahead. Sometimes it works out great, sometimes it doesn't.
I think the big thing that holds people back, especially me, is fear. Fear of failure. The logic becomes "if I don't try, I don't fail."
It's like.. the inverse of "it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
wtf....? Why the hell did she yell at you? o_O'
(What the FUCK is with the In-Laws always thinking they have a right to treat their kid's partners like crap anyway...? How many cycles does it have to go through? What? They think "Well, My In-laws treated ME like crap, so I'll treat my Son's/Daughter's partner like crap too! Brilliant idea!")
You're not messed up hon'. It's everyone ELSE who's a fucking wacko, they just don't realize it.
I love you Jess You knwo that but sometimes we need a kick int he ass perhaps there are few things you need to work out. Yelling at you wont help but I hope things improve for you. We all search for who we are and what we really want. Your not messed up you have a few quirks we all do but You cant hide from the problems you have to stand up face them head on and do something about them. I dont know whats going on we don't maintain much contact anymore Alli know is i have and will a l continue to care and worry aboutcha and miss yah.
why she yell at you Jessie? *hugs tightly*
you aren't messed up. Your a smart, great person :)
Sometimes people do that. It's not nice. But also most of the time not a reason to start questioning yourself too much.
O.o :HUG: Awww, cheer up pup
There so many words i want to say to you to cheer you up right now.
Kind of hard to put them into something easy to understand, but i'll just
list them and let you know i am still alive ^^ .
1. Mothers have a hard time dealing with the other women in there son's lives. not all ways true but it's there.
2. Your the most loving and caring person i know in my life so, No your not messed up. You just had a bad day is all, pick yourself up and be strong i know you can.
3. People are a fickle lot, just have to find your nitch with her and work on a relation ship where you both have a understanding. Maybe talk to her about what went down and work it out from there. >.> My mom is a hell fire demon when she's mad, but i know in the end she will come to talk it out later.
Hope these help i know i really don't get on LJ much my life is a spinning top atm but thanks for the aim :HUG!: miss you little sis
Excuse me? *You* messed up? Um...if you were messed up, d'ya think Tim would be with you? *grin* Everyone has problems in themselves. It's the nature of the human animal. It's the nature of the *intelligent* human that we work on those flaws, at our own pace. And no one has the right, ever, to make you feel small.
To do that, and do what many do - take an absure enjoyment out of it, feeling it's their right, makes them a human *animal*.
*hugs* Remember what you've got. Where you and your love are planning to "go."
Not what others feel you should be doing.
Your not messed up hun"Hugs" keep your your chin up things well turn around im here for you and always well be im me if you wanna talk about it ^_^! "Hugs tight"