Apologies... - Jessie T. Wolf — LiveJournal
I sorta feel you were perfectly valid in your comments. Maybe you were lashing out but you were also concerned. That's one of the difficult choices we are sometimes faced with. Do I hurt someone I think is a nice person with the truth so that they might not get hurt further? Or do I let them go blindly on their way and possibly get much MORE hurt? We go round and round in wondering what is right and what is wrong. It's a human thing and as I said, we're often faced with difficult choices.
You were hurt. You knew another might get hurt like that and didn't want it to happen, though saying something would hurt that person. Conundrum.
It happens. Especially to/from people that have true compassion for others.
Don't hurt yourself with it. Understand it. It's allright to regret it if things just don't work out the way you hoped.
Then take a deep breath. Think of your Tim. And go for a "walk." It's what I do whenever possible.