Jessie T. Wolf
I Hate Ignorance...|
WHY do people insist on making my life more difficult than it needs to be? Why do I always need to be the bad guy in stoopid situations? I'm getting so sick of people's dumbass whining, I could just spit acid. >.<
I got an e-mail a couple of weeks ago from some guy who was a fan of my artwork. Very nice little e-mail, filled with compliments. So naturally I replied in my usual cheery way, saying thank you and so forth. I like meeting new people, it's always nice to meet new fans, and possibly new friends. And I got another reply, asking to exchange messenger names, which I was fine about. My messenger contacts are made public, right here in my Live Journal info.
So I was on AIM today, and this person (not naming names, for his sake) decided to say hi to me. Fine, I say hi back, all friendly like. Y'all know me, I'm always nice and cheerful with people. Course, my cheeriness started to switch more to, "um... kay... wait a minute here..." when he started going into how he wished that I was his (this was not even 5 minutes after the initial IM). I started backing away even more when I found out that he was only 17. I thought, great, a 17-year-old kid has a crush on me... okay, that's not so bad. I'll take it as a compliment.
Kept on talking, cos he hadn't done any harm so far. But he started getting really persistent with the "I wish we would date, you should give me a chance." I asked him how could he have feelings for me when he didn't even know me? He replied, "well that's why we should date, to get to know each other better." I told him that's not how relationships work. You don't just date someone you know nothing about. You start off as friends, see if anything clicks, if you get along and like each other a lot, then you consider dating. I also told him *nicely* that I wasn’t interested, because I’m already kinda involved with someone anyway. To which he just got all upset over and sighed and pulled the depressed poor little me crap.
Not wanting to seem rude, I tried lifting him up a bit, and I told him it's not so bad. It's not worth getting upset over, there are plenty of other fish in the sea, and we probably live too far away from each other anyway. It just wasn't very realistic to expect a sudden relationship, but I told him that I wouldn't object to being his friend. More sobs and sighs and whines about how he now wanted to end his life!
Okay now... there are just certain things you do NOT start with da Jessie. The "I'm going to kill myself because I can't get what I want and no one loves me" crap is at the top of my list of shit you don't pull with me. And so suddenly I went from nice to blunt. And I told him, don't start that bull... I have WAY too much to deal with, and I already have a good friend I've been trying to help when he tried to kill himself... I can NOT handle that shit. I blatantly told him he was being unreasonable, and although sure it's flattering that he's got a little crush, a relationship was just not feasible. But again, I said (although I don't know why I even bothered at that point) that I'd be willing to be his friend, and asked him to please calm down.
To which he responded, "walks away and listens to the birds chirping."
What... the... fuck? I said, "Fine. Be that way. I was trying to be nice and give you a chance. Sorry, but I don't deal with such ignorance." And I blocked him. I have NEVER had to block anyone from my AIM list before. And I hate to seem rude, but he really upset me! >.< How can people BE so damn selfish?? Now he's probably going to start spreading some bullshit about how much of a bitch Jessie T. Wolf is... I'm almost expecting something like that to start circulating. :/ *flicks her ears and sighs*
Blah... makes my head just wanna explode. >.
Current Mood: annoyed
|Date:||December 6th, 2003 11:39 pm (UTC)|| |
Eat Shit, It's New!
I had that problem too before, it was with a 14 year old gay fur who wanted a relationship with me. I mean, I was friends with him and we talked n stuff like that, next thing you know he's saying he's in love with me. To which I just initialized my BTFO program (Back The Fuck Off) and told him that I am NOT gay. :P
Don't worry yourself over him Jess, sometimes it seems life gives us shit, but like shit, it'll pass over time. X'D
|Date:||December 6th, 2003 11:49 pm (UTC)|| |
Heh, sounds familliar. *hugs* I've been the subject of negative rumors based on someone else's whining lack of gratification.
|Date:||December 6th, 2003 11:53 pm (UTC)|| |
i don't know if they are fascinated by the idea you draw or that they grow totally obsessed with the artist... it's disturbing. whatever happens happens. let people like them be what they want, pity ain't gonna get them your attention nor anyones. it's just so wrong to pop on someone's IM and say... "i love you!" *shudders* they need: A) a life and B) to contact that outside world!
you know rumors are just half truths not really told by both sides. just a one sided thing.
let them seek pity... for all i care, if they kill themselves because of me, their blood ain't gonna be on my hands. that's how i see it anyways. *hughug*
take care wolfdog!
*snugs and noses her cheek* dont worry luv. beleive me this will only keep going on. i learned over the years that there are many furs out there who are just plain imature, petty, and all around retarded.
you know your fine. i know your fine. dont let it get to you to the point of ruffling you up. *snuggles* feel better luv ^^
i mished yew! ganny needs bed cause its 6:30am X.x *dumb dwagon*
ill be on more later i prawmiss! x.X *gonna faint*
|Date:||December 7th, 2003 01:25 pm (UTC)|| |
Re: moof ":}
*SNUGS!* Least I know I always have you to keep me safe from people like that... thanks for replying.. means a lot to me. *gentle noses*
What have you been up to, dear?! O.o Haven't seen you around in a while. Hope you're not getting into trouble. ;)
*nods and offers a hug*
You know, you were a whole lot more tolerant than I would ever have been. I'd have blocked him after a few seconds. Mind you, I'm no artist, but I had some guy do that to me on AIM a week or so ago. Two seconds into the conversation he says "I see from your LJ info that you're interested in fursuit sex." So then he starts asking me a few personal questions, so the red flags start going up. Then he asked me some questions on a related, but rather personal topic. He asked if I had pics of it... I said yes. Then he asked if I could show him. I told him that I don't show those to people I just met. Heck, there are people that I've known for seven years that haven't seen those pics! My ex-boyfriend hasn't seen those pics! So anyway, he feels that he can win my trust by talking about his furry writing and sending me one of his stories. To make a long story short, I wound up ignoring him all night and then blocking him a day later when he asked for the pics again.
Taris, the not-yet-awake Maritime werewolf
|Date:||December 7th, 2003 01:15 pm (UTC)|| |
I will *never* understand why certain people think that you'll just lay down for them. Makes me sick. People like that should be tied up and gagged and stabbed with hot pokers. >.
|Date:||December 8th, 2003 12:33 am (UTC)|| |
Squash em with big ole macro-paws!
Bah! I'd be tempted to slap anyone who spread rumours against you...I'd definately growl something fierce at them, and you know me, I'm not the agressive type. One thing that pisses me off to no end is people who just want to stir stuff.
Sounds like this kid got everything mommy could give him and isn't happy because he can't get what he really wants. The only way he knows how to get something is to act all sad and depressed because his every whim isn't satisfied.
Don't worry about that guy. I know a lot of people tend to pull that kind of crap. It's terrible that you had to deal with him, but I'm really proud of you for standing up to him and slapping him down. It sounds like he was quie the strange one, and he probably needs to be slapped around (physically and verbally) by lots of people to rearrange how he deals with the rest of society. Maybe you've helped him come a little closer to reality.
|Date:||December 8th, 2003 12:31 am (UTC)|| |
Sometimes . . .
Sometimes, just being a prick in situations like that isn't such a bad Idea.
"I'm going to kill myself if. . (insert "want" here) "
Oh? Well, don't make too much of a mess for the cops to clean up.
Though my Fieancee's Mom works with Psychos and Crazies on a daily basis, I udnerstand that there ARE the genunine nut bags that WILL kill themselves, but when some 17 year old who has nothing better to do but to sit online and try to express his love to you, (to which he'll tell his friends later that he "made it" with a hot chick on the net last night) then yeah, Fuck em. Er, wait, don't fuck em, "fuck em". . . .
I prefer; "Go away, or I shal taunt you a second time..."
Come on Jess, I thought you'd learn how to be an Ass Hole from watching me over the years.
Down with the internet stalkers! Down I say! Yeesh....people can be so annoying sometimes.