Taking A Look Back - Part 5 - Jessie T. Wolf — LiveJournal
Taking A Look Back - Part 5|
I'm gonna have to go out on a limb here and tell you to maybe wait just a bit before setting up with another serious relationship again.. Funny coming from me the guy who can't seem to make anything last more then a few months before screwing everything up miserably :P
But if you can learn from your own mistakes and the mistakes of others then you're not too far behind.
Currently the words spoken to a person at a time like this, IE:"There's always someone else out there.." are meaningless to me, there was one person whom my heart desired and i couldnt have, and for days and even weeks you can find yourself focussed only on what you lost, as well as that feeling of "I have to go through forming another relationship all over again with someone arrrg" when all you want is to be happy right now, the problem with that is it always leads you to "settle" for someone.. possibly the other person is in the same situation, looking for someone to comfort them and make them happy right now without thinking about how happy you'll be when things go back to normal.
When you're sad, any bit of happiness can seem like it's the greatest feeling in the world, that if you could only hold onto that feeling forever you'd be happy forever.. etc etc.. Trust me, I'm a romantic.. i pretty much know all these feelings and fall for them far worse then anyone else *silly fox* Once you get out of the sad times you may hit a limit on how happy you are with a person, you may want more but now can't get more because you took the first open arms you reached for.
I guess what it all comes down to is time.. maybe you need to wait and think about it a little more next time before someone walks up and asks you out, take the time to look past the pickuplines, the pretty face, the fame or notoriety, take the time to truly know a person and befriend them at least a little before jumping into something :3
Hope some or any of this helps you in any way.. at the least you can take comfort in knowing that i took a really long time to type it because you're a nice person and the least i can do is make an attempt to cheer you up or help you a little.
Take care Jessie, dont forget there's always that silly fox in the hawaiian shirt to hug if you need one ^^