Major Psycho Headache... - Jessie T. Wolf — LiveJournal
Major Psycho Headache...|
I have to disargee with you, anyone can be helped, it just depends on how much determination you have in willing to help them.
When your goal in life is to help those in pain, and when you have the ability to calm even the most trouble of spirits, with time you are able to work with them and help them with there problems.
|Date:||June 3rd, 2005 02:40 am (UTC)|| |
I DID try to help him, and he turned nuts on me. >:( It's not MY fault he can't control his behavior. And the fact that he's so blind to even try to recognize the few times I actually DID make an effort to communicate with him in a sensible manner, and he turns on ME... saying I "turned him down" when he was suicidal. That's far from the truth.
I came on AIM to TALK HIM OUT of wanting to kill himself, saying that I didn't mind chatting with him through LJ or e-mail once in a while, but that I didn't know him well enough to consider DATING him!! He lives in fucking HUNGARY! I'm in Toronto! He thinks that just because my background is also partially Hungarian, and I happen to like dogs too, and I was nice to him a few times, that automatically makes me want to be his girlfriend? How much sense does that make to you, hrmm? Why do I have to put up with that?
I don't know him. I don't have the TIME to dedicate every moment to try and help him with all of his problems, just because he has some stupid crush on me. He doesn't even KNOW me. And as much as he'd like to, I've already explained to him, MANY times, that I don't have the time to be everyone's best friend, just because THEY want me to be.
Duely noted. If any though one should be a little careful around people. I'm just drawing on past experiences, when I tried helping others by any means, only to be taken advantage of, my naivete' gone.
I guess, after thinking of what you said, dealing with people is like taking one day at a time differently I suppose.