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Jessie T. Wolf
September 8th, 2004
12:27 am


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Date:September 8th, 2004 10:59 am (UTC)

Re: A Little Story For You...

Oh my...
I've not experienced anything quite like that before (well, not with relationships, anyway, I was with someone once who did that sort of thing to -everyone-, they didn't even have to be in a relationship), and I have to say I share your feelings about how wrong and hurtful this situation is.

It's always so much harder to see a situation for what it is when the antagonist is pretending to be so nice and wonderful... if they're being a blatant dick it's easier to smack them down for it.

Hopefully someday someone good for this girl will come along and sweep her off her feet- or at least maybe someday she'll come home early to find another girl in their bed...

There really isn't any hope for changing the guy, unfortunately, it's been said that a man is who he is by his 16th birthday, and you shoudln't go into a relationship expecting to change him; this girl knew what she was getting into (or such was how I interpreted it) and didn't like it and tried to change it ... and now she's reaping the consequences. I'm not saying it serves her right or she deserves it; but she doesn't really have anybody to blame but herself once she finds out the truth.

Him on the other hand... He sounds like someone who both has the need to be free to do his own thing, and has control/rejection issues. If he makes that big of a deal over your doing what you felt was right, and how it's brought woe and wearyness to his life.. then... well... there are words for what I'm trying to say but I just had a massive short-circuit in my brain's language center o_o
So I will end this here, lest I go on babbling like some kind of drooling moron about human fears and issues...
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Date:September 8th, 2004 11:27 am (UTC)

Re: A Little Story For You...

OMG, you are SO on the money! Damn... you are so very, very on the ball. Kudos, seriously. X.x Wow... *impressed*

It's like you just KNOW. My god, it's nice to know that something I've written actually makes SENSE for once! O.o
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