Two-Faced... >:/ - Jessie T. Wolf — LiveJournal
I. So. Understand.
I've been dealing with an identical type of situation with my grandparents; we (my mate and I) moved in to help around the house, take care of a few things they couldn't, etc; then they decide they're totally unsatisfied with everything we've done and put an ultimatum on my mate to get a job or get out; and it's only after we manage to do both (i.e, he found a job in another state and we're both leaving) thay they decide they didn't mean it.
Though I have to wonder; part of the reason my grandparents were freaking was because of stress in their own lives; could it be that your mom has a lot of bottled up stress that she's just taking out on Solon? Maybe she needs to really sit down and have a good heart-to-heart about stuff that might be stressing her out?
Sorry for just kind of being the complete stranger that pops her head in out of the blue, but this is something I can really relate to and thought I could offer some advice. ...murr, I'll take my nose out of your business now <:)
|Date:||August 11th, 2004 06:09 am (UTC)|| |
No worries! New faces are always welcome. :) My mom does have a lot of stress built up, but trying to talk to her about it really doesn't do much. :/ A lot of the times she just creates her own problems, when they were never really there to begin with. >.< I don't know WHY she does this, but it tends to drive a lot of people crazy. :/