To All My So Called "Friends" Out There... - Jessie T. Wolf — LiveJournal
To All My So Called "Friends" Out There...|
*hesitant conforting pat, because she needs all of her fingers intact for drawing things and video games* Engaging straitforward mode..
Calling people out is a good idea for many reasons, especially to know for sure that what you're being told they are saying isn't being exagerrated, just because it's another layer of deceit in this never ending cycle.
Don't settle from any second hand rumor bullshit from 'anybody'. Go to the source (With whoever it is) and keep people from trying to manipulate you.
I personally think you're really cool, and you seem really nice from your journal and everything Em has been telling me about you for months. I think you're just a nifty person that I like before getting to know too too well. Intelligent, fun, nice, unique and well spoken... Which is whats important to me, not how well you can draw, or who you know or who you're dating.
But I guess I'm afraid that some people will accuse me of trying to manipulate you if I pursue a friendship. But I'm still going to wave at you and say I'm rooting for you and your happiness and that I hope all of this bullshit dies down for you really quickly. Having been in similar situations, being involved, even a little, in this one. This crap just needs to stop.
|Date:||May 4th, 2004 04:25 am (UTC)|| |
*nods and thanks you* I'm so sick of this drama, and so sick of walking on eggshells. >.< I make no judgement of people until I get to know them, and I'm nice to everyone, unless they give me a reason not to be. I wouldn't think you were trying to manipulate me just for trying to persue a friendship. Whatever happens in time will happen, irregardless. I take everything in stride. It's the best way to take things.
Good advice, and very well put.